Sexual Hoops: I wrote this article about a year ago I believe and I never posted it because it was going to be taught exclusively at an advanced bootcamp we had planned with Braddock (along with more gold), but this right here is one of my hall of famer theories that you can take straight to the bedroom. Enjoy.
(Mods: please put this in my classic writing section as this is the very foundation for one night stand game right here)
I noticed on how I was getting girls to go sexual so fast and I realized the structure of what I was doing. This is what I call sexual hoops and this is really important when it comes to trying to do one night stands.
So the structure is the following, there are three levels of hoops:
1. Exagerated/Unrealistic sexual hoops
2. Semi Realistic sexual hoops
3. Fantasy sexual hoops
Open the girl based on the ‘why are you doing that?’ shock and awe frame (i.e. it’s your fault).
Then transition into ‘Hi, I’m Jim. And you are?’
Isnt this an awesome place? OR So whats your story?
Who are your friends? You have some right?
Transition quickly into push pull and qualification simultaneously.
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1. The first one is based on completely unrealistic facts. Everything you're talking about is non reality based and she has to doubt that you would even do the things you're sayinng. It's like a cartoonish illustration of you having sex with her, it's supposed to be funny, a little bit out there, but not enough so she could say anything about it, it's a joke, that happens to convey the intention of the interaction.
Ex:
PUA: I haven't told you this but I'm a master at the hidden arts of kama sutra
HER: hahaha what?
PUA: Yeah, did you see the girls that were following me earlier? They're the girls that I've slept with, they follow me everywhere, they just can't get enough. It's kinda annoying but I don't blame them, once you go [yourname] you never go back.
PUA: See those girls? They’re my wives. That one there in particular is crazy in bed. She doesn’t look all that but under the sheets she’s freaky.
PUA: You know, you should know that I’m not like other guys
HER: What do you mean?
PUA: Well, my intentions are completely dishonorable.
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2. The second one are semi reality based. The topic has been brought up playfully and now she kinda does know what your intentions are. This step you are making it more solid. You are basically setting up a plan for the interaction in the night. You are still inserting the idea but it's becoming really obvious that you want to have sex with her that night. You immediately follow all of these comments by a disqualifer of how she should not hang out with you or how she should run away.
In this stage you also give her the warnings that she should run away and state your intentions. "Just so you know I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you shouldn't talk to me". The push is really important because if you don't use it then her natural reaction is going to be to push you away.
Ex:
Bad (without push)
PUA: Just so you know I'm gonna try to hook up with you
HER: Well you can try, I don't know how far you'll get
PUA Tim: I choose you. Its you and me tonight. You know that right?
Good (with push pull)
PUA: Just so you know, I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you should run away, you're too nice, I would just do bad things to you
HER: I'm not too nice!
PUA: You know, I think we’re either gonna fight or fuck. [Not field tested]
PUA: You know, you’re kinda cool. Like how you [insert] and even if I wasn’t trying to get into your pants, I still think it’d be cool to hang out with you.
PUA: You know, I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you should go that way
PUA: You know, you should really get away from me. I’m bad news.
HER: Why?
PUA: Because if you stay any longer, I’m going to try hook up with you.
PUA: You’re hot… do you have a sister that I can hit on?
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3. The third hoops are the fantasy hoops, where you basically hit her deepest fantasies of being dominated fucked without mercy. At this point you should have seeded the past two hoops and the conversation is already sexual and the vibe is "on". You make comments like "I would fuck you so hard", "I would take you home and fuck you so hard you could barely walk for the next couple of days".
At this point your disqualifiers are still going to be there, but they're going to be softer disqualifiers, followed by the occasional hard disqualifier that throws her off.
PUA: I’m going to ruin you for all men.
HER: Why?
PUA: Because I can’t stop thinking about doing bad things to you.
PUA: OMG, I would so take you home and fuck you so hard, you wouldn't be able to walk straight for the next couple days...
HER: (Visualizing what you just said)
PUA: OMG what are you doing to me, I'm a nice person, I can't do this, I want to be a virgin until I get married
PUA: You know what I would do to you, I would put your legs over here (signaling on her shoulders), I would get on top of you and completely dominate you while I was fucking you really hard.
HER: (Absorbing your comment)
PUA: OMG, no no wait, I'm not that easy. I gotta go, I don't know what you're doing to me but I better go get a drink or something.
PUA: (Starts to walk away... interrupts himself and comes back)
PUA: Ok, come with me, let's get a drink, but let's be good, I don't know why but I'm just drawn to you for some reason... stop trying to seduce me, I wanna be a priest one day, I can't have sex.
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If you do these correctly, you will have a girl that is very turned on, she's very attracted to you and has no doubt in her mind that you are trying to fuck her. You took her through the first hoop, which is playful sexual introduction, she accepted it. You took her through the second hoop, which is grounding your sexual intentions to reality, and she accepted it. Then you took her through the last hoop, and you played on her fantasies and got her really turned on, and pushed and pulled, and she has accepted that frame, what's next?
Basically you need to take her home. But there's a small thing you need to do mid set that either makes you or breaks you, and it's called seeding the pull. You are planting the idea that after you are in the club/bar/whatever you two should go somewhere to continue the interaction. At all costs you want to avoid being the guy that,when the places closes and everyone is outsitde says something like "so... you wanna go somewhere else?". That is the wrong approach to it because she has to make the decision right there and then, the state has just been broken, she might have to deal with her friends trying to take her home, and many other variables that you can't control.
What you want to do is, in a high note, mid-set, you suggest that you do something afterwards. Think of something that's cool about your place, like if you have some cool pictures of your most recent trip, or if you have a set of turntables, or whatever, you suggest that you go to your place because she has to check that out. It can also be going to a restaurant near your place because you are hungry. What you are doing is just given her a valid excuse to take her home without triggering the "we are going to fuck" switch, because then she has too much pressure on the fact that she HAS to do something. If you use a seeding excuse, then she can validly back down from sex because that wasn't part of the agreement, so it takes the pressure off the situation.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Beliefs - Gold
First let me give you a fair warning.. this is pretty advanced stuff. If you have no game and have no social skills right now, then you can definitely get them and I honestly believe anyone can but this post is not the place to start.
I've been thinking a lot about universal ways to improve my game, and one of the things that I'm always about is finding the permanent solution to a problem. I really am not the biggest fan of techniques and thinking of game as in "lines" because what will happen is that two weeks from now I won't remember that line or i just won't feel like saying it anymore because it gets too repetitive and old.
Don't get me wrong, if i do hear a good line or routine ill use it but realistically i will use it about once or twice and then ill move on to something else.
So in my quest to improve my game (and everybody else's) I've found that there are specific principles you can apply to your game that once you implement them, you will create an "organic" improvement, meaning you won't have to think about it, meaning it's natural to you (this is why I think I get called a natural a lot because it's really hard for most people to see what "principles" you operate under as opposed to techniques).
So to create a rock solid foundation of change that lasts forever (and you don't "lose it" even when youve dated a girl for a while or haven't gone out for a long time) we need to implement these principles or Beliefs.
If you don't know what a belief is, let me give you a short introduction.
A belief is a construct of your mind in order to understand the world around you. Since you can't focus on a million things at the same time, your brain will assume that it already knows the truth on a lot of things around you so you don't have to think about it. This helps you operate so you run smoothly so you just focus on whats new/urgent/interesting.
The problem is a lot of times your beliefs are fucking you and depriving you of amazing things you could be getting whether it's girls, money, and all sorts of opportunities.
For example, and this is a really important belief, in the "community" it is a very common belief that in order to get a girl to "like you" you need to go through X,Y,Z. If you don't go through that process, then most guys will not feel like they have gotten the girl the girl to the point where she likes you.
I used to subscribe to this thought thinking that if i haven't gone through "gaming a girl" then she is simply not really into me. I used to believe that if I haven't gone through the motions and slept with her, then she can't really want me.
This is a bad belief and it fucks you because:
A. It leads to leaking emotionally. If you don't think she wants you then you are trying to get validation from her.
B. You can't really be a cool person when you think someone is not into you.
PRINCIPLE: WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME YOUR REALITY
Whatever you think it's true you will act accordingly and people will respond to that. If you think you can't get rich you will never act upon anything because "you can't get rich what's the point". If you think that you are destined to be rich you will not stop until you find something that makes you rich because "that's your destiny".
Let me just give you in advance to the objections that people have to this.
- I don't know what to say.. my answer is say anything. If you have these 2 beliefs I'm going to give you and you're coming from this place there's pretty much nothing you can say that will not work. If you want one night stands then read my sexual hoops post and say that.
- I don't want to open anymore because I'm so validated. Don't take this to the extreme where you become a delusional bastard. Stay in reality and well grounded but come from this place, keep focusing on these beliefs and eventually you will master them so they become your reality. Keep doing the right action which is open, be super social talk to everybody and become a social connector (read my social circle post for more of that).
So... let's get on to a more practical part of this. I'm gonna give you two beliefs that are EXTREMELY POWERFUL and will completely transform your game if you simply come from this place.
1. Everybody loves you and every girl wants you, if not they are being a fucking dickhead.
This belief came from me analyzing all of the most amazing guys with girls that I know. I was trying to put it into words what was it that they all had in common that made them have that "it" factor. Like you meet these guys and you instantly like them and of course girls love them too.
I was trying to break them down until I started to look into their beliefs and it hit me when I was breaking Daxx down (who's an awesome instructor with awesome game and beliefs). Daxx just became my roommate so as I always do with everybody that has awesome game I was breaking him down.
What we'll do (I live with Braddock and Daxx) is that we will all consult each other's text messages to come up with the best alternative to send a girl. So what I was noticing is that he comes from the strong belief that girls really want him, as opposed to "trying to get the girl to see him". And I was blown away by how strong that belief is in him so we started talking about it and I was telling him about the naturals I know and we finally broke it down into a specific belief that every single natural has:
Everybody loves me and every girl wants me, if not they are being a fucking dickhead.
They all assume girls looove them like crazy. Like if they are in a club and a girl just looks at them, they will be like "yep, she likes me". They are looking for any little detail to confirm that belief so it's very strong rooted because they are always confirming it.
Guess what this does? It makes you not look for any validation, you don't need their approval, and above all, you don't need to "make them feel attracted to you", they just like you already so your mind is like quiet in the storm. The world is a great place for these guys because theyre walking around with the image of everyone around them wanting them... and guess what, it works.
One of the best naturals I know even said it to me once, "you know when you're really delusional about something to the point where there's nothing that will convince you otherwise, that's how I got good.
The other side of this one belief is that "if she doesn't like me she's being a fucking dickhead" this part is just as important! Because when you convince yourself of something so strongly nothing is going to convince you otherwise so if a girl is acting weird by not being into you, then she is a weirdo that need to be discarded because you simply do not deal with psychos.
And that my friends is the amazing belief structure that will snowball and give you unstoppable confidence and power with girls.
The one other belief I want to show you is just as powerful and it will help you pull a lot more than most people in the community.
The problem is that most people in the community have still inherited bad beliefs that are just assumed from everybody learning game that it's not until a genius like me (haha!) comes and sees how wrong it is and everybody is assuming the wrong thing.
So this other belief is when you are pulling.
I got this because the other day I had this stripper alll over me, she loved me, and we were going to meet up after the strip club, and my belief was that I should bring her with me because I need to "make her" do it right? So guess what happened? This girl is all over me and I'm hesitating if she's gonna come. She senses this and of course she goes "well if this guy doesn't believe that I wanna come that means that he doesn't get this that often (even if I do btw) because other girls have probably done this before so I just shouldn't do it". Boom no show.
And this is the kind of belief that will lead you to get attraction in the club and not pull...
On the other hand let's analyze if you were in this same situation and you believed that this girl really wanted to come home with you. You would have been completely relaxed about it. After all you get this deep rooted feeling that she REALLY WANTS to come home with you. So what do you do, you may tease her a little bit by just leaving when your friends are leaving (instead of trying to stay there trying to "get her") and instead you know what happens... she wants what she can't have so she's not validated yet. So she's looking for that sense of completion that she "has you" so she comes and meets you and boom, everybody wins.
SHE REALLY WANTS TO COME HOME WITH YOU.
And again, any girl that doesn't is a fucking dickhead and weird and you don't deal with psychopaths anyways. You win no matter what, feel no social anxiety and you are the fucking champ.
"you know when you're really delusional about something to the point where there's nothing that will convince you otherwise, that's how I got good" do that for a while and eventually it will become true for you.
Hope this helps.
Here's an exercise to work on inserting new beliefs:
You review your night out, and you think of every interaction you had. You analyze it by thinking what beliefs were running through your head. You then implement good beliefs by re running the movie in your head but this time doing it through the beliefs i just gave you. your brain will absorb this and eventually you will be doing these things naturally.
Dahunter
ps. Daxx and I have estimated that 5-7 of these beliefs will make you one of the best of the world. If you think you have a belief like that feel free to email it to me a dahunter@lovesystems.com and I'll run it through my pickup simulator!
I've been thinking a lot about universal ways to improve my game, and one of the things that I'm always about is finding the permanent solution to a problem. I really am not the biggest fan of techniques and thinking of game as in "lines" because what will happen is that two weeks from now I won't remember that line or i just won't feel like saying it anymore because it gets too repetitive and old.
Don't get me wrong, if i do hear a good line or routine ill use it but realistically i will use it about once or twice and then ill move on to something else.
So in my quest to improve my game (and everybody else's) I've found that there are specific principles you can apply to your game that once you implement them, you will create an "organic" improvement, meaning you won't have to think about it, meaning it's natural to you (this is why I think I get called a natural a lot because it's really hard for most people to see what "principles" you operate under as opposed to techniques).
So to create a rock solid foundation of change that lasts forever (and you don't "lose it" even when youve dated a girl for a while or haven't gone out for a long time) we need to implement these principles or Beliefs.
If you don't know what a belief is, let me give you a short introduction.
A belief is a construct of your mind in order to understand the world around you. Since you can't focus on a million things at the same time, your brain will assume that it already knows the truth on a lot of things around you so you don't have to think about it. This helps you operate so you run smoothly so you just focus on whats new/urgent/interesting.
The problem is a lot of times your beliefs are fucking you and depriving you of amazing things you could be getting whether it's girls, money, and all sorts of opportunities.
For example, and this is a really important belief, in the "community" it is a very common belief that in order to get a girl to "like you" you need to go through X,Y,Z. If you don't go through that process, then most guys will not feel like they have gotten the girl the girl to the point where she likes you.
I used to subscribe to this thought thinking that if i haven't gone through "gaming a girl" then she is simply not really into me. I used to believe that if I haven't gone through the motions and slept with her, then she can't really want me.
This is a bad belief and it fucks you because:
A. It leads to leaking emotionally. If you don't think she wants you then you are trying to get validation from her.
B. You can't really be a cool person when you think someone is not into you.
PRINCIPLE: WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME YOUR REALITY
Whatever you think it's true you will act accordingly and people will respond to that. If you think you can't get rich you will never act upon anything because "you can't get rich what's the point". If you think that you are destined to be rich you will not stop until you find something that makes you rich because "that's your destiny".
Let me just give you in advance to the objections that people have to this.
- I don't know what to say.. my answer is say anything. If you have these 2 beliefs I'm going to give you and you're coming from this place there's pretty much nothing you can say that will not work. If you want one night stands then read my sexual hoops post and say that.
- I don't want to open anymore because I'm so validated. Don't take this to the extreme where you become a delusional bastard. Stay in reality and well grounded but come from this place, keep focusing on these beliefs and eventually you will master them so they become your reality. Keep doing the right action which is open, be super social talk to everybody and become a social connector (read my social circle post for more of that).
So... let's get on to a more practical part of this. I'm gonna give you two beliefs that are EXTREMELY POWERFUL and will completely transform your game if you simply come from this place.
1. Everybody loves you and every girl wants you, if not they are being a fucking dickhead.
This belief came from me analyzing all of the most amazing guys with girls that I know. I was trying to put it into words what was it that they all had in common that made them have that "it" factor. Like you meet these guys and you instantly like them and of course girls love them too.
I was trying to break them down until I started to look into their beliefs and it hit me when I was breaking Daxx down (who's an awesome instructor with awesome game and beliefs). Daxx just became my roommate so as I always do with everybody that has awesome game I was breaking him down.
What we'll do (I live with Braddock and Daxx) is that we will all consult each other's text messages to come up with the best alternative to send a girl. So what I was noticing is that he comes from the strong belief that girls really want him, as opposed to "trying to get the girl to see him". And I was blown away by how strong that belief is in him so we started talking about it and I was telling him about the naturals I know and we finally broke it down into a specific belief that every single natural has:
Everybody loves me and every girl wants me, if not they are being a fucking dickhead.
They all assume girls looove them like crazy. Like if they are in a club and a girl just looks at them, they will be like "yep, she likes me". They are looking for any little detail to confirm that belief so it's very strong rooted because they are always confirming it.
Guess what this does? It makes you not look for any validation, you don't need their approval, and above all, you don't need to "make them feel attracted to you", they just like you already so your mind is like quiet in the storm. The world is a great place for these guys because theyre walking around with the image of everyone around them wanting them... and guess what, it works.
One of the best naturals I know even said it to me once, "you know when you're really delusional about something to the point where there's nothing that will convince you otherwise, that's how I got good.
The other side of this one belief is that "if she doesn't like me she's being a fucking dickhead" this part is just as important! Because when you convince yourself of something so strongly nothing is going to convince you otherwise so if a girl is acting weird by not being into you, then she is a weirdo that need to be discarded because you simply do not deal with psychos.
And that my friends is the amazing belief structure that will snowball and give you unstoppable confidence and power with girls.
The one other belief I want to show you is just as powerful and it will help you pull a lot more than most people in the community.
The problem is that most people in the community have still inherited bad beliefs that are just assumed from everybody learning game that it's not until a genius like me (haha!) comes and sees how wrong it is and everybody is assuming the wrong thing.
So this other belief is when you are pulling.
I got this because the other day I had this stripper alll over me, she loved me, and we were going to meet up after the strip club, and my belief was that I should bring her with me because I need to "make her" do it right? So guess what happened? This girl is all over me and I'm hesitating if she's gonna come. She senses this and of course she goes "well if this guy doesn't believe that I wanna come that means that he doesn't get this that often (even if I do btw) because other girls have probably done this before so I just shouldn't do it". Boom no show.
And this is the kind of belief that will lead you to get attraction in the club and not pull...
On the other hand let's analyze if you were in this same situation and you believed that this girl really wanted to come home with you. You would have been completely relaxed about it. After all you get this deep rooted feeling that she REALLY WANTS to come home with you. So what do you do, you may tease her a little bit by just leaving when your friends are leaving (instead of trying to stay there trying to "get her") and instead you know what happens... she wants what she can't have so she's not validated yet. So she's looking for that sense of completion that she "has you" so she comes and meets you and boom, everybody wins.
SHE REALLY WANTS TO COME HOME WITH YOU.
And again, any girl that doesn't is a fucking dickhead and weird and you don't deal with psychopaths anyways. You win no matter what, feel no social anxiety and you are the fucking champ.
"you know when you're really delusional about something to the point where there's nothing that will convince you otherwise, that's how I got good" do that for a while and eventually it will become true for you.
Hope this helps.
Here's an exercise to work on inserting new beliefs:
You review your night out, and you think of every interaction you had. You analyze it by thinking what beliefs were running through your head. You then implement good beliefs by re running the movie in your head but this time doing it through the beliefs i just gave you. your brain will absorb this and eventually you will be doing these things naturally.
Dahunter
ps. Daxx and I have estimated that 5-7 of these beliefs will make you one of the best of the world. If you think you have a belief like that feel free to email it to me a dahunter@lovesystems.com and I'll run it through my pickup simulator!
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Moving to LA - Need a roommate in Chicago
So it's all done now. I'm moving to LA. I'm pretty fucking excited. I'm also excited to live where the superconference is taking place and to chill with all of the instructors again... last SC in Vegas was insane!
The place in LA is sick, were right were all the celebs live, with pool hot tub and all that shit, it's the way to live in Cali.
However... all along I've been planning on still keeping an apartment here in Chicago, and due to an unexpected series of events my would-be chicago roommates won't be able to get an apartment here with me. I'm writing this post to see if there are any Chicago guys that have a decent apt and want to rent me a room. I only plan on being there occasionally and chances are I could increase your game dramatically :).
If you have something like this let me know.. send me an email with pics to dahunter@lovesystems.com asap, as I'm out of here in less than a week.
Cheers,
Dahunter
The place in LA is sick, were right were all the celebs live, with pool hot tub and all that shit, it's the way to live in Cali.
However... all along I've been planning on still keeping an apartment here in Chicago, and due to an unexpected series of events my would-be chicago roommates won't be able to get an apartment here with me. I'm writing this post to see if there are any Chicago guys that have a decent apt and want to rent me a room. I only plan on being there occasionally and chances are I could increase your game dramatically :).
If you have something like this let me know.. send me an email with pics to dahunter@lovesystems.com asap, as I'm out of here in less than a week.
Cheers,
Dahunter
Friday, May 30, 2008
Miami
Woo! I'm excited, I'm going to Miami this weekend, I've never really gotten to party there much, and I'm going for a quick personal trip so I'm looking for good places to go out to and some fun people to hang out with.
If you're in Miami or you know someone there that's cool to hang out with email me at dahunter [@] lovesystems.com
Thanks!
Dahunter
If you're in Miami or you know someone there that's cool to hang out with email me at dahunter [@] lovesystems.com
Thanks!
Dahunter
Sunday, March 23, 2008
I'm Back... with some goodies
Sorry guys I haven't posted in a while, I've been busy trying to become the richest man on the planet and my greedy ass hasn't been putting that much time into adding value to my blog, but I'm back, and I have some good shitz for you guys.
This is the transcript that I found for a hb10 that I closed almost a year ago, she's one of the hottest girls I've dated and I ran a pretty intense push pull on her, which happened to be all through facebook. I found the logs so I give them here straight up with just the names modified. My game has gotten much more solid since then but there's tons of good stuff in here that can be learned from.
This is from the time I saw her (I met her through her friend and we went out and I didn't game her) to the time we went out on a day2 and I closed her. My text is in bold and hers is plain italic. Enjoy.
you dork, I actually was drunk enough to like you for one day and you end up hooking up with some dude.
You and your weirdly shaped pointy tongue are dorks.
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and who was it i hooked up with? if u consider hooking up kissing on the cheek then...well i am a hoe. please dont write me messages when u are so obviously drunk.
ps- dont diss my tounge till you tried it punk
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listen dorkface, please don't write me messages when you've so obviously been smoking excessive amounts of weed. it's not my problem you have liked to hang out with guys that are complete idiots in the past.
If you think hooking up with someone makes you a hoe you’ve obviously been mixing that weed with a lot of alcohol since everyone does it and it’s something that can be change your life if you do it with the right person.
Also, I will diss your weird pointy shaped tongue all I want. In fact, I would try it the first chance I had just so I could diss it some more. So please, stop being such a nerd.
[dahunter]
p.s. I know I will regret this, but since I know you just broke up with your boyfriend and that can be hard at times, I’ll let you hang out with me and show you a good time. On Sunday me and a few friends are all going snowboarding so if you’re not going to embarrass me with your supreme dorkiness you are welcome to come.
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dear fagbag,
i appreciate the offer of snowboarding. you may be surprized to know that i indeed have snowboarded before. Yup- I spent the whole afternoon sliding down a hill on my ass with my legs and arms flailing about. everyone was jealous of my mad skills. I don't wanna show you up so I think it would be best if i skipped it.
translation- i have to work :(
love,
pointy tounge
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dear dorkface,
Work on sunday? I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. You are indeed way more of a nerd that I had originally anticipaded.
If you want to hang out, let me know when you're free this week and if I am on crack at the time and feel like hanging out with a complete dork, I'll take you out and we'll have fun.
[dahunter]
p.s. you're like the worst kind of nerd there is: The one that doesn't even know how to spell, tongue is spelled TONGUE not TOUNGE. Retard.
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i am a bad speller, poor, and have deformities on my face... why do you want to hang out with me again?
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I don't know, it could be because I think you're beautiful and I like you even with your deformed face and your dorky misspellings. It could be because I liked you since the first moment I saw you and I want to get to know you better... but in reality it's more like I like doing charity work with retards so I consider this as paying my dues.
Love [dahunter]
p.s. I'm an asshole, I'm obnoxious and I usually think I'm the coolest shit since John Travolta on Greece... are u sure you're up for hanging out with me?
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well my dear...
in case you hadn't noticed, i had a boyfriend for quit some time. (2 1/2 ys) me and said boyfriend broke up about two weeks ago and my heart is crushed like sandy from Greese... you,being like john T., can surly relate. To make things worse, the ex handles being hurt by making other people (me) feel like an insecure and worthless pile of shit. thus, i would love to hang out with you but i am warning you i am NOT in the mood to just fuckaround with guys. I can not handle beings a little object to someone rightr now. what am i getting at here? u seem like a hilarious kid but when it comes to girls- definitly only in it for the nookie. if you can hang out with me, sans the nookie, well then yes, lets hang out. so... are you sure your up for hanging out with me?
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First of all let me start by saying you need to stop watching that much MTV… who uses the word “nookie” anyways? Second of all, behind the twitchiness and the awkwardness there might be a really cool girl waiting to come out… if that’s the case I can’t make any promises since I’ve never been the “let’s just be friends” kinda guy and I’m not about to start now if I enjoy hanging out with you.
Having said that, although I’ve never been dumped before I understand where you’re coming from and the last thing I want is to hurt someone that’s already in the middle of a bad breakup. I must add that although yes I enjoy having sex as much as the next person (or maybe a bit more, but don’t blame me for being better at it than most people) no I’m not just about that and I actually do look for someone I can hang out that is both my friend and my girl, so please… stop being such a dork.
All I offer you is good conversation and a good time. Hopefully you have a good old valid fake Id so we can go have a drink at a bar/restaurant, hang out and forget about all the bullshit and just have fun. Let me know how that sounds to you and when you would be free if you like the plan.
[dahunter]
p.s. “Greece” – not “Greese”. Come on you gotta be kidding me.
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1.) in case you haven't noticed, i rebel against spell check. stop making fun of my mis-spellings because.. well the jokes would just never end.
2.) i just drunkenly left mypurse in a cab with my good ID so all i have left is my ok ID..makes me look chinese but it usually works
3.) don't make fun of me for leaving my purse in a cab. just stop. I'm kicking myself for it.
4.) even though you won't make any promises I'll make you one- i promise you have to be "just my friend" for a lil bit. sorry :(
5.) i don't watch MTV... stupid dribble
6.) busy week for me till weekend
7.)...... i like eatting :)
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aw- am i one of the "stupid girls" you mentioned in your obnoxious rambling note? :(
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First of all, who leaves their purse in a cab? Seriously, are you hitting the pipe?
Second of all, I’ve heard it’s pretty hard to find a good fake ID, and you just leave it on the cab? I wasn’t consciously referring to you when I wrote my awesome note (that everyone loves BTW) but after the misspellings, the purse and the fact that you used the word “nookie” in a sentence… I think you heading straight into the list.
Third of all, I said IF behind the twitchiness and the nerd façade I would see a cool girl then I wouldn’t make any promises. So far those things are blindingly loud, so please… don’t assume all I want to do is sleep with you. I can’t do that without knowing what kind of a pointy tongued dork I’m getting involved with first.
Ps. My weekend is full. I’d invite you Snowboarding on Sunday again but I’m assuming you are lame and have work. Hopefully I’ll see your dorky ass next week like monday or something.
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let me first point out that i just happened to log onto facebook right after you sent me a gay message. coincidence hunny- don't let this feed your already insanly large ego.
and yes, i do assume every guy who isn't yet in assisted care wants to sleep with me. not becuase of how i look, but becuase God made every man a horndog who wants to sleep with every girl. you were blessed with being crowned king of the horndogs.
and unfortunitly, i do have to work on sunday. some people have these silly things called jobs to pay for these stupid little nucinces called "rent" and "food" and, my personal favorite, "clothing". FYI- i work a lot. more than any normal person should want to.
so in conclusion, since your weekend is jam packed with whatever it is you do, i guess I'll have to wait to see you and figure out what it is that is actually making me want talk to you in the first place.
PS- stop being a facebook fag and use a phone. technology is your friend [dahunter]. [gives out her phone number]
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PSS- its GREASE. dumbass.
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First of all, I keep getting surprised of how much of a dork you really are. Yeah, my ego is that bigger because you replied to my message right after I sent it… dumbass.
Second of all, you’ve been obviously hanging out with retards with no options way too much. So please, if I’m giving you a chance to hang out with me… at least TRY to cover up the obvious nerdiness that so clearly defines you. I’m willing to help you get out of nerd ville but I have to see at least see some sort of potencial (which I am yet to see).
Third of all, I wish you a happy valentine’s day, for a second I wished I had let you be my valentine girl so you could finally stop being such a dork, but unfortunately this is the busiest night of the year for me so I honestly feel sorry that you won’t have that opportunity today.
I’ll give you a call soon dumbass. See if you actually impress me through there.
[dahunter].
Ps. It’s “because” not becuase. It’s “unfortunately” not unfortunitly. There’s no stop in you isn’t it?
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deer [dahunter],
i am shooked that yuo think i am a baad spellr. i hav allwys spellt wundurfully! plaese stop makeing up thees obnoxcios lies abut me. They are unkalled for and hurt my fealings.
thanc you,
[her name misspelled]
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Oh my God, you're like sesame street... on crack
I'll give you a call tomorrow before I head out snowboarding, I cant wait to see this.
After this I just called her, we setup a time to get together and the rest was history, we dated for a couple of months... great girl.
Cheers,
Dahunter
This is the transcript that I found for a hb10 that I closed almost a year ago, she's one of the hottest girls I've dated and I ran a pretty intense push pull on her, which happened to be all through facebook. I found the logs so I give them here straight up with just the names modified. My game has gotten much more solid since then but there's tons of good stuff in here that can be learned from.
This is from the time I saw her (I met her through her friend and we went out and I didn't game her) to the time we went out on a day2 and I closed her. My text is in bold and hers is plain italic. Enjoy.
you dork, I actually was drunk enough to like you for one day and you end up hooking up with some dude.
You and your weirdly shaped pointy tongue are dorks.
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and who was it i hooked up with? if u consider hooking up kissing on the cheek then...well i am a hoe. please dont write me messages when u are so obviously drunk.
ps- dont diss my tounge till you tried it punk
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listen dorkface, please don't write me messages when you've so obviously been smoking excessive amounts of weed. it's not my problem you have liked to hang out with guys that are complete idiots in the past.
If you think hooking up with someone makes you a hoe you’ve obviously been mixing that weed with a lot of alcohol since everyone does it and it’s something that can be change your life if you do it with the right person.
Also, I will diss your weird pointy shaped tongue all I want. In fact, I would try it the first chance I had just so I could diss it some more. So please, stop being such a nerd.
[dahunter]
p.s. I know I will regret this, but since I know you just broke up with your boyfriend and that can be hard at times, I’ll let you hang out with me and show you a good time. On Sunday me and a few friends are all going snowboarding so if you’re not going to embarrass me with your supreme dorkiness you are welcome to come.
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dear fagbag,
i appreciate the offer of snowboarding. you may be surprized to know that i indeed have snowboarded before. Yup- I spent the whole afternoon sliding down a hill on my ass with my legs and arms flailing about. everyone was jealous of my mad skills. I don't wanna show you up so I think it would be best if i skipped it.
translation- i have to work :(
love,
pointy tounge
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dear dorkface,
Work on sunday? I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. You are indeed way more of a nerd that I had originally anticipaded.
If you want to hang out, let me know when you're free this week and if I am on crack at the time and feel like hanging out with a complete dork, I'll take you out and we'll have fun.
[dahunter]
p.s. you're like the worst kind of nerd there is: The one that doesn't even know how to spell, tongue is spelled TONGUE not TOUNGE. Retard.
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i am a bad speller, poor, and have deformities on my face... why do you want to hang out with me again?
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I don't know, it could be because I think you're beautiful and I like you even with your deformed face and your dorky misspellings. It could be because I liked you since the first moment I saw you and I want to get to know you better... but in reality it's more like I like doing charity work with retards so I consider this as paying my dues.
Love [dahunter]
p.s. I'm an asshole, I'm obnoxious and I usually think I'm the coolest shit since John Travolta on Greece... are u sure you're up for hanging out with me?
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well my dear...
in case you hadn't noticed, i had a boyfriend for quit some time. (2 1/2 ys) me and said boyfriend broke up about two weeks ago and my heart is crushed like sandy from Greese... you,being like john T., can surly relate. To make things worse, the ex handles being hurt by making other people (me) feel like an insecure and worthless pile of shit. thus, i would love to hang out with you but i am warning you i am NOT in the mood to just fuckaround with guys. I can not handle beings a little object to someone rightr now. what am i getting at here? u seem like a hilarious kid but when it comes to girls- definitly only in it for the nookie. if you can hang out with me, sans the nookie, well then yes, lets hang out. so... are you sure your up for hanging out with me?
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First of all let me start by saying you need to stop watching that much MTV… who uses the word “nookie” anyways? Second of all, behind the twitchiness and the awkwardness there might be a really cool girl waiting to come out… if that’s the case I can’t make any promises since I’ve never been the “let’s just be friends” kinda guy and I’m not about to start now if I enjoy hanging out with you.
Having said that, although I’ve never been dumped before I understand where you’re coming from and the last thing I want is to hurt someone that’s already in the middle of a bad breakup. I must add that although yes I enjoy having sex as much as the next person (or maybe a bit more, but don’t blame me for being better at it than most people) no I’m not just about that and I actually do look for someone I can hang out that is both my friend and my girl, so please… stop being such a dork.
All I offer you is good conversation and a good time. Hopefully you have a good old valid fake Id so we can go have a drink at a bar/restaurant, hang out and forget about all the bullshit and just have fun. Let me know how that sounds to you and when you would be free if you like the plan.
[dahunter]
p.s. “Greece” – not “Greese”. Come on you gotta be kidding me.
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1.) in case you haven't noticed, i rebel against spell check. stop making fun of my mis-spellings because.. well the jokes would just never end.
2.) i just drunkenly left mypurse in a cab with my good ID so all i have left is my ok ID..makes me look chinese but it usually works
3.) don't make fun of me for leaving my purse in a cab. just stop. I'm kicking myself for it.
4.) even though you won't make any promises I'll make you one- i promise you have to be "just my friend" for a lil bit. sorry :(
5.) i don't watch MTV... stupid dribble
6.) busy week for me till weekend
7.)...... i like eatting :)
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aw- am i one of the "stupid girls" you mentioned in your obnoxious rambling note? :(
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First of all, who leaves their purse in a cab? Seriously, are you hitting the pipe?
Second of all, I’ve heard it’s pretty hard to find a good fake ID, and you just leave it on the cab? I wasn’t consciously referring to you when I wrote my awesome note (that everyone loves BTW) but after the misspellings, the purse and the fact that you used the word “nookie” in a sentence… I think you heading straight into the list.
Third of all, I said IF behind the twitchiness and the nerd façade I would see a cool girl then I wouldn’t make any promises. So far those things are blindingly loud, so please… don’t assume all I want to do is sleep with you. I can’t do that without knowing what kind of a pointy tongued dork I’m getting involved with first.
Ps. My weekend is full. I’d invite you Snowboarding on Sunday again but I’m assuming you are lame and have work. Hopefully I’ll see your dorky ass next week like monday or something.
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let me first point out that i just happened to log onto facebook right after you sent me a gay message. coincidence hunny- don't let this feed your already insanly large ego.
and yes, i do assume every guy who isn't yet in assisted care wants to sleep with me. not becuase of how i look, but becuase God made every man a horndog who wants to sleep with every girl. you were blessed with being crowned king of the horndogs.
and unfortunitly, i do have to work on sunday. some people have these silly things called jobs to pay for these stupid little nucinces called "rent" and "food" and, my personal favorite, "clothing". FYI- i work a lot. more than any normal person should want to.
so in conclusion, since your weekend is jam packed with whatever it is you do, i guess I'll have to wait to see you and figure out what it is that is actually making me want talk to you in the first place.
PS- stop being a facebook fag and use a phone. technology is your friend [dahunter]. [gives out her phone number]
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PSS- its GREASE. dumbass.
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First of all, I keep getting surprised of how much of a dork you really are. Yeah, my ego is that bigger because you replied to my message right after I sent it… dumbass.
Second of all, you’ve been obviously hanging out with retards with no options way too much. So please, if I’m giving you a chance to hang out with me… at least TRY to cover up the obvious nerdiness that so clearly defines you. I’m willing to help you get out of nerd ville but I have to see at least see some sort of potencial (which I am yet to see).
Third of all, I wish you a happy valentine’s day, for a second I wished I had let you be my valentine girl so you could finally stop being such a dork, but unfortunately this is the busiest night of the year for me so I honestly feel sorry that you won’t have that opportunity today.
I’ll give you a call soon dumbass. See if you actually impress me through there.
[dahunter].
Ps. It’s “because” not becuase. It’s “unfortunately” not unfortunitly. There’s no stop in you isn’t it?
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deer [dahunter],
i am shooked that yuo think i am a baad spellr. i hav allwys spellt wundurfully! plaese stop makeing up thees obnoxcios lies abut me. They are unkalled for and hurt my fealings.
thanc you,
[her name misspelled]
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Oh my God, you're like sesame street... on crack
I'll give you a call tomorrow before I head out snowboarding, I cant wait to see this.
After this I just called her, we setup a time to get together and the rest was history, we dated for a couple of months... great girl.
Cheers,
Dahunter
Sunday, January 13, 2008
Interesting...
So I stole this new years resolution from my boy Jules Crew because it's so money, and it's paying off. The resolution is that I must start a conversation with anyone that's within arms reach of me at any point.
So the latest story I have is that I'm on my plane heading back to Chicago, and I start chatting up this lady that's sitting next to me.. turns out she's going through a divorce, and we talk about how she lives in Chicago and LA, and she wants to keep both houses... she's prolly divorcing some rich guy.
I start telling her about myself and start DHVing myself for practice, and she starts telling me how her daughter is perfect for me, and she starts telling me how her daughter dated Tommy Lee, and she pulls out a picture of her daughter (who is really hot) and Tommy Lee. I'm like "that's cool"... but she thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread, we land, and as soon as our plane lands she calls her daughter and tells her how she met this amazing guy that's perfect for her... I'm just sitting there listening kinda thinking "this is interesting" since everyone around us is noticing this... so she hands me the phone and suggests that I talk to her.
So I grab the phone and I start DHVing myself, everybody is standing up waiting for the line to move, and listening to my conversation being aware of what's going on at the same time... She asks for my number... I put her mom back on the phone, she's selling me hardcore. 5 minutes later I get a text from her. We've had a few texts back and forth now.
Besides that I've also managed to find out the lives of many cab drivers, the one that impacted me the most was this guy that took me to LAX... I wish I could have helped him... but offering the community to someone that doesn't ask for it by themselves is like trying to feed a person that's not hungry.. it doesn't work.
He told me that he was married, he hated his wife, and that he was only with her because of his son. Besides that he had had two affairs, and that after 6 years he was still in love with one of these girls, which dumped him for no reason (or no reason that he could see of course), which I suspect would be for lack of attraction... he was talking as if they had just broken up and how he wanted her back... 6 years later.
The other affair he had, the girl also dumped him, and he still wanted her as well even though she had a kid with someone else... like 4 years ago. He said he had a PHD in his country but he was stuck her being a cab driver because the money was better than over there and he was doing it for his kid.
What do you do for someone like this? Offering advice rarely works... I just asked him questions like... do you think there's nobody else better for you than this girl?.. trying to lead him to find the answer for himself... hopefully he breaks free of his limitations.
This was a huge eye opener of how we really change lives by giving guys more options... it frees you from the past if you know you can go out and meet new girls that could be better than any girl you've dated before. I try to connect to that feeling with the students in our bootcamps, but seeing it fully realized in a guy just made me see how big the changes we make in guys really are.
Once again I find myself being thankful for applying all the principles that I learn from the community, otherwise in another dimension, the chode dimension, I could have ended up being like that guy... lusting after a love from almost a decade ago.. I seriously hope he gets it one day... probably won't but hope I planted a seed for him to go out and look for it instead of make any excuses.
I guess my message for today is, be thankful that you're a part of this movement, most of us will never know what kind of awful faith we avoided just because we found this and decided to take control of our lives.
Cheers,
Dahunter
So the latest story I have is that I'm on my plane heading back to Chicago, and I start chatting up this lady that's sitting next to me.. turns out she's going through a divorce, and we talk about how she lives in Chicago and LA, and she wants to keep both houses... she's prolly divorcing some rich guy.
I start telling her about myself and start DHVing myself for practice, and she starts telling me how her daughter is perfect for me, and she starts telling me how her daughter dated Tommy Lee, and she pulls out a picture of her daughter (who is really hot) and Tommy Lee. I'm like "that's cool"... but she thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread, we land, and as soon as our plane lands she calls her daughter and tells her how she met this amazing guy that's perfect for her... I'm just sitting there listening kinda thinking "this is interesting" since everyone around us is noticing this... so she hands me the phone and suggests that I talk to her.
So I grab the phone and I start DHVing myself, everybody is standing up waiting for the line to move, and listening to my conversation being aware of what's going on at the same time... She asks for my number... I put her mom back on the phone, she's selling me hardcore. 5 minutes later I get a text from her. We've had a few texts back and forth now.
Besides that I've also managed to find out the lives of many cab drivers, the one that impacted me the most was this guy that took me to LAX... I wish I could have helped him... but offering the community to someone that doesn't ask for it by themselves is like trying to feed a person that's not hungry.. it doesn't work.
He told me that he was married, he hated his wife, and that he was only with her because of his son. Besides that he had had two affairs, and that after 6 years he was still in love with one of these girls, which dumped him for no reason (or no reason that he could see of course), which I suspect would be for lack of attraction... he was talking as if they had just broken up and how he wanted her back... 6 years later.
The other affair he had, the girl also dumped him, and he still wanted her as well even though she had a kid with someone else... like 4 years ago. He said he had a PHD in his country but he was stuck her being a cab driver because the money was better than over there and he was doing it for his kid.
What do you do for someone like this? Offering advice rarely works... I just asked him questions like... do you think there's nobody else better for you than this girl?.. trying to lead him to find the answer for himself... hopefully he breaks free of his limitations.
This was a huge eye opener of how we really change lives by giving guys more options... it frees you from the past if you know you can go out and meet new girls that could be better than any girl you've dated before. I try to connect to that feeling with the students in our bootcamps, but seeing it fully realized in a guy just made me see how big the changes we make in guys really are.
Once again I find myself being thankful for applying all the principles that I learn from the community, otherwise in another dimension, the chode dimension, I could have ended up being like that guy... lusting after a love from almost a decade ago.. I seriously hope he gets it one day... probably won't but hope I planted a seed for him to go out and look for it instead of make any excuses.
I guess my message for today is, be thankful that you're a part of this movement, most of us will never know what kind of awful faith we avoided just because we found this and decided to take control of our lives.
Cheers,
Dahunter
Saturday, January 12, 2008
LA, The Ultimate Shit Test and Closing a Model
So I’m in LA right now, and it’s been quite the eventful past two days. I came a day earlier to meetup with this girl, so I could release my inner beast on her. It was a great plan, it would have worked for both of us if it hadn’t been for one little detail: She shat herself while I was fucking her. Lol I can’t stop laughing even as I type this
That’s right gentlemen, I was fucking this girl soo hard she literally shat herself while I was fucking her. I’m not sure what’s the etiquette on this situation but my natural response was to take a shower and start cracking up.
For those of you that are wondering (hopefully not that many of you), the position was a variation of doggystyle, and it was normal vaginal intercourse, which makes it hard for me to wonder how exactly this happened.
So to summarize this, no I unfortunately didn’t pass this shit test, I don’t think I’ll be seeing this girl again as I’m not into that type of SHIT (no pun intended) and that was a dealbreaker for me.
What’s funny is that also, before that we were having sex and the sign to clean up the room was placed in the door and three maids walked in on us while we were on the missionary, revealing my precious ass.
So, moving along… fast forward to that same day (yesterday) but late at night. We’re at The Don’s bootcamp, we’re having a good time, we’re pushing the guys into sets, we’re doing demo’s for them to see, Tim from RSD is there who’s a cool guy… all is good.
It’s almost closing time, I’m talking to this girl that’s beautiful… she’s a model, she’s from Russia, as tall as I am, perfect body, perfect face, definetly fits into my category of “only open 9’s and 10’s”...
I opened her while she was talking to this guy, I suspect he’s a PUA because it’s the second set I’ve done that he has been in, I befriend him, and he befriends me back but I can tell he has some resentment against me for coming in his sets, which later he would prove I was right. Game is game and it’s all fair play, I don’t complain if a girl talks to another guy instead of me, I simply learn from it and move on.
So after opening sets of 10’s like a maniac for a long time, I really am beginning to get into that wavelength… it’s like 10’s are their own little subculture and you have to speak their language otherwise you’re not getting in… a lot of shit that I would before take as getting blown out I understand what they are saying and I understand the response they are looking for.
What I’m seeing is that as a guy, your job is to provide the framework for her to girl logic herself into sleeping with you… it’s not your job to want anything from her, she gets that too much and it’s a negative anchor on her, your job is to simply keep adding value and she will usually make the rest really easy for you.
Of course, like every legitimate hot girl, there are going to be orbiters. So you’re going to have to learn how to deal with them. It’s a pretty common theme, and their value radar goes on like a motherfucker when you get an interrupt, because if the other guy is higher value than you are you are out of that set like your were just shot out of a cannon. They are brutal on this, and in the same way, I’m becoming brutal on weeding out low value girls out of my life.
So the main thing I would say to handle an orbiter, is about vibe. I don’t think less of them, I don’t think more of them, I just honestly am friendly with them and engage them in a conversation. The key to it is to make it obvious that you don’t have an agenda, that you are there just to have fun, and if they try to ask about me and her (some guys will do this trying to tool you like: “are you guys dating?”), then I always go into complete bullshit mode. I’ll go into a roleplay something like this:
“Yeah me and this girl, we’re divorced… i’m not gonna lie, it was amazing for a while… but then she started drinking… a lot… she would get back home and hit me… there’s only so many times you can “fall of the stairs” you know… what was I supposed to tell my family?… and then the kids… she was always asking for “the check…. The check”… it got pretty bad… I mean if I only want to pay tuition for the first born of each marriage that should be legal right… I couldn’t handle her anymore so I just filed the divorce… and here we are now”
Something like that that just throws the vibe off in a funny way, you don’t have to go through the whole thing either you can just say… we’re divorced… and that’s enough of an answer as well.
That was a big thing for this girl since she got approached several times and I would just run something along those lines… the same guy that was talking to her when I opened her came back way later into the set, and did a stunt that hurt him really bad and upped my value a lot.
He came back to what I thought was inviting us to an afterparty… So I asked him where he was at, and he rudely said “the invitation is just for her… this is not for you” or something along those lines… and in 10 world being rude is a big sign of social miscalibration… he could have handled it way more diplomatically, like get us excited about it and maybe then saying something like “oh man sorry for the misunderstanding, the invite was only for her”… then it could have potentially worked.. but we were in a stage of really getting along and vibing really well and he came in like a sledge hammer, which me and the girl just looked at eachother and just basically eyecoded eachother like saying “what a weirdo”, which further enhanced our little world.
After this I bounced the girl inside the club to get a drink… I don’t know if you guys are relocating your sets but you guys have to move every set that you open… move it somewhere else and the vibe just gets better… seriously you have to move every single set that you open for you to get anywhere… don’t stay in the same location where you opened otherwise you are hurting yourself.
We did a couple shots of tequila, the place was closing, and The Don gave me the address of a taco place that’s amazing. We went there, she got opened a lot while we were there, and I was just being cool with all the guys, befriending them, which disarmed them at the same time.
I had a cab take us to her address, and this is where you have to play your cards right, I started talking about her roommates and would they say if I came in… I’m not really saying I’m coming in but I’m suggesting it already so she knows I’m thinking about it… we get there, I just get out of the cab and start disqualifying myself like “you’re roommates are prolly gonna be pissed if I come in”, but I’m out of the cab already so it doesn’t matter.. we sit on her stairway without getting in, and she suggests we go to my hotel instead… perfect… kinda… because I think the other instructor I’m rooming with is in there…
Of course I say nothing… I start to prepare to get a new room. And sure enough she asks me if I have a roommate, and I tell her it’s cool we’ll get a new room.. once we get here though, it turns out the hotel is sold out… so I just take her to our room, throughout this time she’s telling me how she can’t do this if there’s someone else there and bla bla, luckily our instructor (who I can’t remember his alias and I don’t want to put his name here) is not here, he must have pulled.
She mentions that I’m fat… and I’m like laughing because I don’t care but at the same time I know I need to get my ass in shape… I’m starting ju jitsu classes this next week and I’m also going back into my schedule of working out a lot, travelling a lot has thrown me off with non exercise and eating at crazy times unhealthy shit. I officially decided that I’m losing weight… but of course I laugh at her comment and mention how if I actually didn’t have a such a strong self esteem I would actually be offended.. she laughs, I’m sure that’s one of those comments that gets to her and improves the way she thinks about me anytime in the future.
Get to the room… take off all her clothes… this is what it’s all about… perfect breasts… perfect ass… her waist is soo thin it’s ridiculous… the sex was soo good, she was really flexible… this is what I got in the game for… good times.
Like my friend Mr M says “He who dares wins”.
Thanks for reading,
Dahunter
That’s right gentlemen, I was fucking this girl soo hard she literally shat herself while I was fucking her. I’m not sure what’s the etiquette on this situation but my natural response was to take a shower and start cracking up.
For those of you that are wondering (hopefully not that many of you), the position was a variation of doggystyle, and it was normal vaginal intercourse, which makes it hard for me to wonder how exactly this happened.
So to summarize this, no I unfortunately didn’t pass this shit test, I don’t think I’ll be seeing this girl again as I’m not into that type of SHIT (no pun intended) and that was a dealbreaker for me.
What’s funny is that also, before that we were having sex and the sign to clean up the room was placed in the door and three maids walked in on us while we were on the missionary, revealing my precious ass.
So, moving along… fast forward to that same day (yesterday) but late at night. We’re at The Don’s bootcamp, we’re having a good time, we’re pushing the guys into sets, we’re doing demo’s for them to see, Tim from RSD is there who’s a cool guy… all is good.
It’s almost closing time, I’m talking to this girl that’s beautiful… she’s a model, she’s from Russia, as tall as I am, perfect body, perfect face, definetly fits into my category of “only open 9’s and 10’s”...
I opened her while she was talking to this guy, I suspect he’s a PUA because it’s the second set I’ve done that he has been in, I befriend him, and he befriends me back but I can tell he has some resentment against me for coming in his sets, which later he would prove I was right. Game is game and it’s all fair play, I don’t complain if a girl talks to another guy instead of me, I simply learn from it and move on.
So after opening sets of 10’s like a maniac for a long time, I really am beginning to get into that wavelength… it’s like 10’s are their own little subculture and you have to speak their language otherwise you’re not getting in… a lot of shit that I would before take as getting blown out I understand what they are saying and I understand the response they are looking for.
What I’m seeing is that as a guy, your job is to provide the framework for her to girl logic herself into sleeping with you… it’s not your job to want anything from her, she gets that too much and it’s a negative anchor on her, your job is to simply keep adding value and she will usually make the rest really easy for you.
Of course, like every legitimate hot girl, there are going to be orbiters. So you’re going to have to learn how to deal with them. It’s a pretty common theme, and their value radar goes on like a motherfucker when you get an interrupt, because if the other guy is higher value than you are you are out of that set like your were just shot out of a cannon. They are brutal on this, and in the same way, I’m becoming brutal on weeding out low value girls out of my life.
So the main thing I would say to handle an orbiter, is about vibe. I don’t think less of them, I don’t think more of them, I just honestly am friendly with them and engage them in a conversation. The key to it is to make it obvious that you don’t have an agenda, that you are there just to have fun, and if they try to ask about me and her (some guys will do this trying to tool you like: “are you guys dating?”), then I always go into complete bullshit mode. I’ll go into a roleplay something like this:
“Yeah me and this girl, we’re divorced… i’m not gonna lie, it was amazing for a while… but then she started drinking… a lot… she would get back home and hit me… there’s only so many times you can “fall of the stairs” you know… what was I supposed to tell my family?… and then the kids… she was always asking for “the check…. The check”… it got pretty bad… I mean if I only want to pay tuition for the first born of each marriage that should be legal right… I couldn’t handle her anymore so I just filed the divorce… and here we are now”
Something like that that just throws the vibe off in a funny way, you don’t have to go through the whole thing either you can just say… we’re divorced… and that’s enough of an answer as well.
That was a big thing for this girl since she got approached several times and I would just run something along those lines… the same guy that was talking to her when I opened her came back way later into the set, and did a stunt that hurt him really bad and upped my value a lot.
He came back to what I thought was inviting us to an afterparty… So I asked him where he was at, and he rudely said “the invitation is just for her… this is not for you” or something along those lines… and in 10 world being rude is a big sign of social miscalibration… he could have handled it way more diplomatically, like get us excited about it and maybe then saying something like “oh man sorry for the misunderstanding, the invite was only for her”… then it could have potentially worked.. but we were in a stage of really getting along and vibing really well and he came in like a sledge hammer, which me and the girl just looked at eachother and just basically eyecoded eachother like saying “what a weirdo”, which further enhanced our little world.
After this I bounced the girl inside the club to get a drink… I don’t know if you guys are relocating your sets but you guys have to move every set that you open… move it somewhere else and the vibe just gets better… seriously you have to move every single set that you open for you to get anywhere… don’t stay in the same location where you opened otherwise you are hurting yourself.
We did a couple shots of tequila, the place was closing, and The Don gave me the address of a taco place that’s amazing. We went there, she got opened a lot while we were there, and I was just being cool with all the guys, befriending them, which disarmed them at the same time.
I had a cab take us to her address, and this is where you have to play your cards right, I started talking about her roommates and would they say if I came in… I’m not really saying I’m coming in but I’m suggesting it already so she knows I’m thinking about it… we get there, I just get out of the cab and start disqualifying myself like “you’re roommates are prolly gonna be pissed if I come in”, but I’m out of the cab already so it doesn’t matter.. we sit on her stairway without getting in, and she suggests we go to my hotel instead… perfect… kinda… because I think the other instructor I’m rooming with is in there…
Of course I say nothing… I start to prepare to get a new room. And sure enough she asks me if I have a roommate, and I tell her it’s cool we’ll get a new room.. once we get here though, it turns out the hotel is sold out… so I just take her to our room, throughout this time she’s telling me how she can’t do this if there’s someone else there and bla bla, luckily our instructor (who I can’t remember his alias and I don’t want to put his name here) is not here, he must have pulled.
She mentions that I’m fat… and I’m like laughing because I don’t care but at the same time I know I need to get my ass in shape… I’m starting ju jitsu classes this next week and I’m also going back into my schedule of working out a lot, travelling a lot has thrown me off with non exercise and eating at crazy times unhealthy shit. I officially decided that I’m losing weight… but of course I laugh at her comment and mention how if I actually didn’t have a such a strong self esteem I would actually be offended.. she laughs, I’m sure that’s one of those comments that gets to her and improves the way she thinks about me anytime in the future.
Get to the room… take off all her clothes… this is what it’s all about… perfect breasts… perfect ass… her waist is soo thin it’s ridiculous… the sex was soo good, she was really flexible… this is what I got in the game for… good times.
Like my friend Mr M says “He who dares wins”.
Thanks for reading,
Dahunter
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